him, him and him...

three guys, the nerd, the adrenalin junkie and the player. one is already taken, the second one isn't in love anymore and the third one doesn't wanna committed but only wanna bang. these are the three guys i used to like, of my lists of ex-es, these are my three favorites. all from different age group but still in their early, mid 20's, different backgrounds, race, lifestyle, style, job, different point of view and different level maturity. and the one thing all of them have in common? it didn't work. these are three most common type of guys every girl should date before ACTUALLY being in a relationship. here's my research:
p/s: results may vary.

• THE NERD

He's a nerd alright, not romantic, doesn't know to be mushy and stuff with girls, total emotionless creature. how i was attracted to him? god knows! i can't believe i actually had a crush on this dude. well, I've always have this thing for nerds which, i kinda find them sexy hahaha but this dude, i don't know. he was a good friend,a good listener, he's funny, smart and i find him cute, did mention hot?? he never failed to make me laugh and he laughs at all my jokes! maybe that could been all the reasons. he's not the type that you can expect to do all those romantic stuffs like you see in the movies, NOT AT ALL! but he could be romantic alright if he tried. because maybe i guess he wasn't attracted to me the way i was attracted to him. i was kinda young then, typical teenager, attitude and was rude. (i still am but,back then i was WAY too rude) he's silent, doesn't talk much while I'm talkative! that could have been a turn off for him. he was always helpful, never failed to teach especially when it comes to all this computer thingamajigs which, i have no idea of! I've always find this dude interesting. its not only cos the "thang" i had for nerds but it was just him. then it all ended,it never actually started to end. he wasn't ready and he simply wasn't into me like i was into him. geesh! so ladies, nerds are heart breakers too. hahaha but they're very helpful, kind, sensitive people. and trust me grrls, these guys can be a heart throb, who needs Orlando bloom or Johnny Depp? they have the "unleashed" romeo in them! now nerdy romeo is already taken and he, who wasn't ready for a relationship is actually in a relationship with his girlfriend numero duos.

• THE ADRENALIN JUNKIE
  

NO, he's not a JUNKIE, he's an adrenalin junkie, meaning he's addicted to CARS not DRUGS. these are the most common type of guys around. well, guys and cars are in separable just like guys and balls (and i meant both BALLS) this dude over here would never seem like the person he actually looks like. he looks like a hard ass, adrenalin junkie metal rocker but, in fact he's a very romantic, passionate, poetic (he's in a band and he's the vocalist cum bassist) he's everything a girl can wish of. did i mention he ADORES his car so damn much! but never fails to pay attention to his girl. hahaha. he'd make you feel like you're the most beautiful creature on earth surface, like a queen and like you're a priceless treasure. now this guy here, he has a way with words! damn! any girl after listening to his words would be a stone not to fall for him! he as loyal as a puppy! but ironically he's a total opposite of me. he's silent I'm loud, he not a party person I'm a party animal, occasional drinker i drink every chance i get to, loves spicy food and I'd die eating them! but its fun being with him. he's very respectful, modest, determined, obedient, a total marrying material. he's the kinda guy you'd wanna bring home and show your parents. the down sides?? well, as for me i found him selfish! he would bitch about how crappy his days were his stresses, and yada yada but when it comes to my turn he'd go "owh? ok" WTF! that would never fail to pluck on my very last nerves! and he's stubborn. talking to him about something is pointless, just like talking to the wall! This kinda dude, maybe you'd wanna hold on to, they'd change for wiser reasons.

• THE PLAYER

Another word for danger! watch out girls. this is the type of guys you should avoid. these are the perfect insensitive jerks! all they ever care about is SEX and getting on the "game" that is why they're called players! we're their game! they'd play you out. how to spot them?
simple:

• killer looks,
  
• total hotties,
  
• hot ride!
  
• smooth talker ( if you analyze a little deeper, you'd realize the selfishness and cockiness)
  
• flirtatious!
  
• they're never sensitive towards your feelings or needs. such self centered dick heads!
• they'd get together with you JUST to get in your pants. once its done, its done! like duh...!

remember! never to get emotionally involved with these guys! heart break guaranteed ladies! always one step forwards to steps back ladies! and not to expect anything in return; as in being emotionally involved or getting together or even WORST, getting married! that's a big NO! NO! and typically players, past midnight, they'd get all horny and loved to have phone sex with you. total commitment phobes. and in case you can't spot any of the above traits in a guy, here's a tip: if you ever feel intimidated by him, his looks, you fear that he'd cheat on you and feel he only likes to for your look and your body, congratulations! you've got yourself a player! trust your instincts. well, i have nothing good to say about these kinda dudes. they're only good physically apart than that it's just nothing!

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